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xoder ([personal profile] xoder) wrote2004-12-05 09:01 pm

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So now it has come time to consider:

Have I been exerting inordinate control over someone I care very much about because of my own very strong prejudices. Should I allow them to make their own mistakes even though they already have, and I don't want them to fall back into...

What the fuck? How could I have gotten into the habit of talking to that person this way and not realized how it must seem to them. Me, the same old patronizing asshole that I hate.

Back to reading.

[identity profile] ricewrites.livejournal.com 2004-12-06 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
I have no idea what this is about, and I'm not going to ask, and unless you want to tell me, you won't.. but I WILL say that you're definitely not an asshole. *superhugs*