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xoder ([personal profile] xoder) wrote2002-02-14 11:34 pm

The explanation... as best as I can do it...

The weird thing that happened last night:
A girl liked me. And told me.
Wow.
Unfortunately, I don't feel I know right now how to answer her. Sorry. I'm working on figuring it out, though :-).
I'm kinda scared, though. The one thing I've wanted: to be wanted enough to be told, and I'm afraid I'll fuck it all up.
Ah well, I have a tendancy to feel I'm gonna fuck things up. I don't actually do it too often.

"We'll see" -- Mimi (from RENT)

PETER

[identity profile] nightstalker.livejournal.com 2002-02-14 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I was in that position just a few weeks ago. (http://www.livejournal.com/talkread.bml?itemid=20355375)
And look at me now... almost happy on occasion.

Run with it, man. Don't be a jerk, be alert to what she wants, ask people who know the both of you and who you can trust for help... and good luck. You'll be on pins and needles for a while, most likely. Good thing you have LJ - it's a great outlet. So keep us informed!

Of course, this all presumes you're interested in her in return...

w00t! goodness then!

[identity profile] faboo.livejournal.com 2002-02-15 05:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, there's nothing committal about a nice conversation over a bag of carmels. Or a cup of coffee, or whatever random consumable you both like.

And unless your extremely lucky, most relationships with the sexy sex won't turn out, but that doesn't mean that they can't each be a nice experience for everybody. Don't sweat it! Eat cookies!

Re: w00t! goodness then!

[identity profile] xoder.livejournal.com 2002-02-15 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Problems

  • Distance
  • And a certain nagging fear that the answer I will give will be influenced by the simple fact that she's the one and only girl to ever tell me that...

[identity profile] ladyravn.livejournal.com 2002-02-15 06:41 pm (UTC)(link)
That's weird, I could have sworn I've told you that... sometime a few years ago

Oy

[identity profile] xoder.livejournal.com 2002-02-15 07:20 pm (UTC)(link)
You know what I mean! She's the only one who told me that without knowing what I'd say. You knew. I was so jelly then. I dunno how to describe it...