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[xoder]

I dreamed that a friend of mine who I've been seeing a lot more of recently came on to me while we were at some place that was a weird combination of Amagansett and Chelsea. We had some nice hot makeouts and were going to have sex but I woke up.



The question is, do I tell her? If so, how so? I've thought her attractive for a while now, but she's involved, and there are other complicating factors that tell me I should just let it pass for a decade or two when we can all laugh at it. And I'm really tempted to put a note in here saying who it is so I can look back to it, but I think it'll just be easier to make a private post link back to here instead.

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[xoder.livejournal.com]

I do not know if she's poly, frankly, probably not. I know she has a boyfriend and has for a while now.

Actually, I think I found (a while ago, during a quiz meme) that comments are stripped by LJ, and even if they weren't, it wouldn't be secret, at all.

[zandperl.livejournal.com]

Oh duh, I forgot comment lines appear in the source. Not that people would know to look for it (at least not before now), but whatever.

If you did want to follow up w/ her, you could either start off by telling her about poly, or by telling her you're attracted to her. *shrug* Good luck whatever you decide.