"Like a graveyard...

Or if you wanted to say something, how's about "you look like a nice person." Women who aren't fixated on their looks prefer to be told they're good people over being told that they're good-looking. It also seems less like sexual harassment if you really think that's highly likely.

Conversely, doesn't that mean that I'm making a character assumption based upon an appearance characteristic? Or what Rose said earlier in this thread...