Two things realy. And then I'll shut up because I'm hardly a fount of wisdom.
1) It's realy not a good thing to have people want you exclusivly for your looks. These are the people who don't have anything to realy offer in a relationship and they're creepy. Realy realy realy creepy. You might want to try instead, people who were first or mainly attracted to you for your apperence. The Latter two shouldn't be hard for you to find. Well, taking into account RIT perhaps it's a bit harder than otherwise. (Although keep in mind your competition is in the quantity not the quality. What was the rule of thumb. You can reject one third of the boys here before they even say anything and another third after one full sentence. I forget who I'm quoting and the %'s might be off) The difference is that someone who only likes you for how you look is incapable of apprecieating who you are, and you're realy nify. Someone who went "ooh, he's cute" and went to go talk to you but also likes you as a person ("ooh he's nice", "ooh he's funny") is prolly actualy worthwhile to be arround.
2) You have as much of a life as I do and I consider myself to have a pretty good one. (I prolly have too much of a life, I get no sleep) Besides which "not going out" means very little when you live in a big building full of teenagers.
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Date: 2001-12-10 08:30 am (UTC)1) It's realy not a good thing to have people want you exclusivly for your looks. These are the people who don't have anything to realy offer in a relationship and they're creepy. Realy realy realy creepy. You might want to try instead, people who were first or mainly attracted to you for your apperence. The Latter two shouldn't be hard for you to find. Well, taking into account RIT perhaps it's a bit harder than otherwise. (Although keep in mind your competition is in the quantity not the quality. What was the rule of thumb. You can reject one third of the boys here before they even say anything and another third after one full sentence. I forget who I'm quoting and the %'s might be off) The difference is that someone who only likes you for how you look is incapable of apprecieating who you are, and you're realy nify. Someone who went "ooh, he's cute" and went to go talk to you but also likes you as a person ("ooh he's nice", "ooh he's funny") is prolly actualy worthwhile to be arround.
2) You have as much of a life as I do and I consider myself to have a pretty good one. (I prolly have too much of a life, I get no sleep) Besides which "not going out" means very little when you live in a big building full of teenagers.