Via msanborn and many others. Comment and I'll...

[xoder]

1) I'll tell you why I friended you
2) Associate you with something
3) Tell you something I like about you
4) Tell you a memory I associate with you
5) Associate you with a character
6) Ask something I've always wanted to know about you
7) Tell you my favorite userpic of yours
8) In return, feel free to repost. Or not. Or whatever.

Comments

[xoder.livejournal.com]

1) We met at TES. I thought you were very attractive and fun to talk to. We even saw Brokeback Mountain together.
2) Buffy (the show, not the character), even though I've never seen it.
3) I like your vigorous pursuit of gender issues. I find it interesting.
4) See Brokeback, above.
5) Your level of energy reminds me of Naruto.
6) What motivated you to go out to see the movie with me?
7) (not like I had a lot of options there...)

[kgola.livejournal.com]

6) I was interested in getting to know you better. Sadly, since then, I've dropped off the face of the planet...