"Jeepers, creepers..."

[xoder]

I was talking with faerykat and I realized that I've never really been ogled. I mean, there was one time I was at Vertex, and this very drunk 40+ lady (at the time, twice my age) called out, "Hey tall stuff!" very thickly, but I don't think that counts. What is it like? Is it always negative? How do you know? Do you have a notable ogling story (as either the oglee or the ogler)?

Comments

[shoujo-mallet.livejournal.com]

I love the distinction wouldn't have minded if he/she/they were attractive. Not as direct comment about you or that situation, but I know too many people that take that exception to heart and approve of, in my mind at least, inappropriate behavior just because someone's attractive.

But I may have more contact to this behavior because I go to Fashion School...yeah

[zandperl.livejournal.com]

I suspect I would have thought it rude either way, but I would've been less likely to be *scared* w/ a different person.