"Jeepers, creepers..."

[xoder]

I was talking with faerykat and I realized that I've never really been ogled. I mean, there was one time I was at Vertex, and this very drunk 40+ lady (at the time, twice my age) called out, "Hey tall stuff!" very thickly, but I don't think that counts. What is it like? Is it always negative? How do you know? Do you have a notable ogling story (as either the oglee or the ogler)?

Comments

[malaul.livejournal.com]

I remember there was this boy that came to visit me from germany and all I could think of was this other guy.

I thought he was so serious and goofy at the same time
and I liked the serious look on his face when he did his martial arts stuff and talked about computers.

I liked to oggle him

[xoder.livejournal.com]

Touché.

To be fair, I didn't notice your ogling, which according to many of the people I've talked to about it is the most odious part. (Or, in certain special cases, the best part.)

[malaul.livejournal.com]

I always think everyone ogles me
and that Im playing hard to get all the time

Makes life very pleasant and is a good ego boost

:grin:

[zandperl.livejournal.com]

What's the difference between an ogling and just checking someone out? And those and flirtatious eye contact? I'm always thinking people are flirting with me.

When I went to college after growing up in NYC I always thought people were flirting with me b/c I was used to how in NY no one ever makes eye contact.

[malaul.livejournal.com]

eye contact for sure
you know how there is that comfy time limit for eye contact?
THe oggling takes it a second or two farther and adds a lil "Come and get me I dare you" smile added in

Its more than just a random eye lock