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I was talking with [livejournal.com profile] faerykat and I realized that I've never really been ogled. I mean, there was one time I was at Vertex, and this very drunk 40+ lady (at the time, twice my age) called out, "Hey tall stuff!" very thickly, but I don't think that counts. What is it like? Is it always negative? How do you know? Do you have a notable ogling story (as either the oglee or the ogler)?

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Date: 2008-04-13 10:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zandperl.livejournal.com
What's the difference between an ogling and just checking someone out? And those and flirtatious eye contact? I'm always thinking people are flirting with me.

When I went to college after growing up in NYC I always thought people were flirting with me b/c I was used to how in NY no one ever makes eye contact.

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Date: 2008-04-14 02:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malaul.livejournal.com
eye contact for sure
you know how there is that comfy time limit for eye contact?
THe oggling takes it a second or two farther and adds a lil "Come and get me I dare you" smile added in

Its more than just a random eye lock
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